Feeling nervous about initiating intimacy is something so many of us face. You’re not alone
if self-doubt or communication hurdles are making it hard to spark those moments of
closeness with your partner. Here are some gentle ways to help you open up and feel more
comfortable.
1. Get to the Root of It
Start by understanding what might be holding you back. It could be past
experiences, body image concerns, or simply feeling unsure of your partner’s
interest. Taking a moment to identify these feelings can make it easier to address
them and move forward.
2. Open Up the Conversation
Sharing your feelings with your partner can bring you closer and relieve any anxiety
you may have. Be honest about your needs and boundaries—chances are they’ll
appreciate the openness and may even feel the same. Talking things through builds
trust and can make it feel safer to initiate.
3. Ease In with Small Gestures
You don’t have to go all out right away! Sometimes a light touch, a compliment, or a
playful comment can be the perfect way to let your partner know you’re interested.
Taking small steps makes initiating feel more natural and builds confidence over
time.
4. Forget Perfection—Focus on Connection
It’s easy to feel like you need to “perform” or reach a goal, but intimacy is really
about connecting with each other. Let go of any pressure to be perfect and just enjoy
the moment. The real magic happens when you both feel comfortable and engaged.
5. Try Tools for a Confidence Boost
Products that nurture intimacy can help set the mood and make initiating feel
easier. For instance, JOMO’s CBD arousal oil can add a soothing, sensual touch that
invites closeness. Or, explore the Mojo vibrating wand—it’s designed for both
pleasure and muscle relaxation, creating a gentle entry point for shared intimacy.
6. Practice Self-Care for Inner Confidence
Feeling good in your own skin is key. Whether it’s through exercise, meditation, or
simply wearing something that makes you feel amazing, taking time for self-care
can make a world of difference in how comfortable you feel with your partner.
Remember: Taking Things Slow is Absolutely Okay
There’s no rulebook for initiating intimacy. By embracing small steps, honest
communication, and a focus on connection, you’re creating a space where both of you canfeel at ease. Give yourself time, trust your journey, and know that initiating will feel more
natural with each step.
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